Fighting on, Tooth and Nail!

I did something today. I know I am a bad ass, so I did what a bad ass should do well I HAD to do it. Let me write a little bit of history. My roommate is a dirty person, this I realized a week after I lived with him but it was already too late because the lease was signed and I was stuck with dirty roommate and no money issues...well then what to do? I did what maybe some others won't do. I cleaned when he did and I didn't clean when he didn't. I don't want to be his mother, girlfriend or sister who clean after him so I behaved like his roommate not as a family member. And this all lead me to acceptance of living at the dirty place.

I was able to live with this dirtiness but I cant live with the person who doesn't like to flush after him. Yeah, and that person is my roommate. So in order to live peacefully, I told him few times that he needs to flush after him but he stated he doesn't like to waste water, and when I explained it is not hygienic, he argued. I had to tell him over and over again that I feel uncomfortable with this but he continued to "forget" to flush. So today when three days in a row I woke up to the filthy toilet, I wrote a big, full paper size note "please flush after you are done, thank you =)" and posted up in the bathroom and left for the day....

I had weird feeling all day that how is he gonna take it, but at the same time I knew I wasn't wrong so I was comfortable with what I did. In the evening I came back home and saw a sticky note on my door "wash your dishes :-)" I just smiled and moved on. He had obviously taken it uncomfortably and had reacted on it stupidly but in a manner. He had taken the note and threw it in trash and I did the same with his sticky note. I didnt wash my dishes because I didn't want to follow his 'order' and also because washing dishes and flushing after yourself has a lot of difference...its NOT the same. I will wash my dishes the next day...lol.

But the best part is he is not "forgetting' to flush after him now...fight on haa haa :-)))

Trojan